Our choices decides our life and our choices depends upon the people in our lives . From beginning till the end we encounter many choices that we have to take and live with them , but sometimes we stumble upon many circumstances in life on which we don’t have any control and no matter how hard these situations are we have to deal with them. Life is not a string of happy moments , it is a journey of our decisions and situations that comes in it . We cannot sit back and wait for the good parts to happen but what you can do is forgive yourself for not being happy during those bad parts .
At some point in our life we take decisions that we regret and instead of getting through these choices we blame it ourselves and we take it along in our life as a burden !!!
But we forget that these decisions are a part of our life and we don’t have to live with these regrets ; we have to make ourselves believe that we not only survive but also thrive in them .We don’t deserve those anxiety because this anxiety attacks sucks , they bring all the memories and these memories hit us like a wave and we are stuck . It feels like it couldn’t get better but REMEMBER ” may be you are not a rose that everybody wants but you are a dandelion that still blooms “.
You cannot control your life ; just follow it and it doesn’t matter whatever the road you take it will always guide you home . And if there is something that I have learned about life is that it goes on 🙂
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It all started a week earlier when we decided to go on a college trip to NAINITAL -THE CITY OF LAKES and without giving much thought to it I said no !!!! But I think it was destined for me to go and it comes out to be the best day of my life .This was the first time in my entire life when i was going out of my home town and i have ever expected this trip would turn out to be this amazing as it did . But as this is my life how come there won’t be any bump in the road , all my friends said no as they have been to this place for so many times but to my luck one said yesss and which was a confirmation that i would definitely go on this expedition . Thankyou ankita you were a great company !!!
Without any expectations i packed my bag with all the essentials i need and went to my bed as i have to wake up early in the morning and the journey started at 4 .30 a.m. . The crisp morning breeze adds the chills to the already built excitement . After a journey of an hour or two the roads lead to the scenic beauty of the hills covered with fog with nothing but clouds floating around . There was no stopping to my excitements as we go higher the excitement increases as this was the first time i have ever seen a mountain. And without even noticing the journey with the craziest dance on the loudest music 😉
Our first stop was the waterfalls the sight was so beautiful water flowing from the mountains and as we stepped in the water our feet gets frozen and numb and the goosebumps starts setting in . The journey continues with the stunning and jaw dropping landscapes along the road . The most adventurous and thrilling part was the ECO CAVES and after passing the caves i felt as if i have won some war :p . The real beauty of the city can be witnessed in the night when the whole town is illuminated with the lights and in the distant world it seems like stars spread through the sky !!!! Just sitting by the side of the lake and grasping every moment i lived there it make me realized that there is beauty all around the world and even asingle day can give you a lifetime happiness 🙂
The girl of whom I am talking about is one of the best thing ever happened to me …..she is soul mate , my person , and the kind of person u call if you ever have to bury a body !!!! But i wouldn’t do that beacuse she is too lazy to move her ass out of her bed 😉 . It’s been 21 years of our friendship …..the childhood friend who becomes your BFF and that’s my partner in crime , lady love AASHNA SAHNI and after so long i can’t even imagine my life without her !!! .
She makes my world an impeccable place to be in . She knows me better than any person on this living earth like , seriously , anyone else in the world !!! She is only one with whom I can relate to , the one who can make me laugh and can laugh too on the weird jokes I crack . She knows my every little secrets and i know hers 😉 .
I mean the time spent with her clicking those weird faces selfies , eating as if you haven’t eaten for days or burst out laughing because we have remembered the same incident at the same time that happened years ago !!!
It’s a blessing to have a friend like these whose family even considered you as their another daughter you kinda share siblings and their home is a home to you too . She always know to say the right words to male feel better , she is always there to hear me vent about anything and evrything , she is always there when we plan for a exquisite vacation that we have dreamed for or when i was throwing tantrums at the world to bring me back to the ground 😉 . She is best critic , supporter and the one who encourages me and tell me off whem i’m wrong .
Thankyou love for always being there and being the amazing person you are , with you i don’t need a reason to be happy We are happy being in each other’s company . Period !!! . For being just as weird as I am . And wish you a very happy birthday :* :* :* …..